S03E23: Be Nice
When Ray and Debra realize they're nicer to strangers than to each other, they vow to change their ways.
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Season 1
Pilot
S1E1 / 13 Sep 1996
I Love You
S1E2 / 20 Sep 1996
I Wish I Were Gus
S1E3 / 27 Sep 1996
Standard Deviation
S1E4 / 04 Oct 1996
Look Don't Touch
S1E5 / 11 Oct 1996
Frank, the Writer
S1E6 / 18 Oct 1996
Your Place or Mine?
S1E7 / 28 Oct 1996
In-Laws
S1E8 / 01 Nov 1996
Win, Lose or Draw
S1E9 / 08 Nov 1996
Turkey or Fish
S1E10 / 22 Nov 1996
Captain Nemo
S1E11 / 13 Dec 1996
The Ball
S1E12 / 20 Dec 1996
Debra's Sick
S1E13 / 03 Jan 1997
Who's Handsome?
S1E14 / 17 Jan 1997
The Car
S1E15 / 31 Jan 1997
Diamonds
S1E16 / 07 Feb 1997
The Game
S1E17 / 21 Feb 1997
Recovering Pessimist
S1E18 / 28 Feb 1997
The Dog
S1E19 / 03 Mar 1997
Neighbors
S1E20 / 10 Mar 1997
Fascinatin' Debra
S1E21 / 17 Mar 1997
Why Are We Here?
S1E22 / 07 Apr 1997
Season 2
Ray's on TV
S2E1 / 22 Sep 1997
Father Knows Least
S2E2 / 29 Sep 1997
Brother
S2E3 / 06 Oct 1997
Mozart
S2E4 / 13 Oct 1997
Golf
S2E5 / 20 Oct 1997
Anniversary
S2E6 / 27 Oct 1997
Working Late Again
S2E7 / 03 Nov 1997
The Children's Book
S2E8 / 10 Nov 1997
The Gift
S2E9 / 17 Nov 1997
High School
S2E10 / 24 Nov 1997
The Letter
S2E11 / 08 Dec 1997
All I Want for Christmas
S2E12 / 15 Dec 1997
Civil War
S2E13 / 05 Jan 1998
Mia Famiglia
S2E14 / 12 Jan 1998
Marie's Meatballs
S2E15 / 19 Jan 1998
The Checkbook
S2E16 / 02 Feb 1998
The Ride-Along
S2E17 / 23 Feb 1998
The Family Bed
S2E18 / 02 Mar 1998
Good Girls
S2E19 / 09 Mar 1998
T-Ball
S2E20 / 06 Apr 1998
Traffic School
S2E21 / 20 Apr 1998
Six Feet Under
S2E22 / 27 Apr 1998
The Garage Sale
S2E23 / 04 May 1998
The Wedding (1)
S2E24 / 11 May 1998
The Wedding (2)
S2E25 / 18 May 1998
Season 3
The Invasion
S3E1 / 21 Sep 1998
Driving Frank
S3E2 / 28 Sep 1998
The Sitter
S3E3 / 05 Oct 1998
Getting Even
S3E4 / 12 Oct 1998
The Visit
S3E5 / 19 Oct 1998
Halloween Candy
S3E6 / 26 Oct 1998
Moving Out
S3E7 / 02 Nov 1998
The Article
S3E8 / 09 Nov 1998
The Lone Barone
S3E9 / 16 Nov 1998
No Fat
S3E10 / 23 Nov 1998
The Apartment
S3E11 / 07 Dec 1998
The Toaster
S3E12 / 14 Dec 1998
Ping Pong
S3E13 / 11 Jan 1999
Pants on Fire
S3E14 / 18 Jan 1999
Robert's Date
S3E15 / 01 Feb 1999
Frank's Tribute
S3E16 / 08 Feb 1999
Cruising with Marie
S3E17 / 15 Feb 1999
Ray Home Alone
S3E18 / 22 Feb 1999
Big Shots
S3E19 / 01 Mar 1999
Move Over
S3E20 / 15 Mar 1999
The Getaway
S3E21 / 05 Apr 1999
Working Girl
S3E22 / 26 Apr 1999
Be Nice
S3E23 / 03 May 1999
Dancing with Debra
S3E24 / 10 May 1999
Robert Moves Back
S3E25 / 17 May 1999
How They Met
S3E26 / 24 May 1999
Season 4
Boob Job
S4E1 / 20 Sep 1999
The Can Opener
S4E2 / 27 Sep 1999
You Bet
S4E3 / 04 Oct 1999
Sex Talk
S4E4 / 11 Oct 1999
The Will
S4E5 / 18 Oct 1999
The Sister
S4E6 / 25 Oct 1999
Cousin Gerard
S4E7 / 08 Nov 1999
Debra's Workout
S4E8 / 15 Nov 1999
No Thanks
S4E9 / 22 Nov 1999
Left Back
S4E10 / 29 Nov 1999
The Christmas Picture
S4E11 / 13 Dec 1999
What's with Robert?
S4E12 / 10 Jan 2000
Bully on the Bus
S4E13 / 17 Jan 2000
Prodigal Son
S4E14 / 31 Jan 2000
Robert's Rodeo
S4E15 / 07 Feb 2000
The Tenth Anniversary
S4E16 / 14 Feb 2000
Hackidu
S4E17 / 21 Feb 2000
Debra Makes Something Good
S4E18 / 28 Feb 2000
Marie and Frank's New Friends
S4E19 / 20 Mar 2000
Alone Time
S4E20 / 17 Apr 2000
Someone's Cranky
S4E21 / 01 May 2000
Bad Moon Rising
S4E22 / 08 May 2000
Confronting the Attacker
S4E23 / 15 May 2000
Robert's Divorce
S4E24 / 22 May 2000
Season 5
Italy (1)
S5E1 / 02 Oct 2000
Italy (2)
S5E2 / 02 Oct 2000
The Wallpaper
S5E3 / 09 Oct 2000
Meant to Be
S5E4 / 16 Oct 2000
Pet Cemetery
S5E5 / 23 Oct 2000
The Author
S5E6 / 30 Oct 2000
The Walk to the Door
S5E7 / 06 Nov 2000
Young Girl
S5E8 / 13 Nov 2000
Fighting In-Laws
S5E9 / 20 Nov 2000
The Sneeze
S5E10 / 27 Nov 2000
Christmas Present
S5E11 / 11 Dec 2000
What Good Are You?
S5E12 / 08 Jan 2001
Super Bowl
S5E13 / 29 Jan 2001
Ray's Journal
S5E14 / 05 Feb 2001
Silent Partners
S5E15 / 12 Feb 2001
Fairies
S5E16 / 19 Feb 2001
Stefania Arrives
S5E17 / 26 Feb 2001
Humm Vac
S5E18 / 19 Mar 2001
The Canister
S5E19 / 09 Apr 2001
Net Worth
S5E20 / 23 Apr 2001
Let's Fix Robert
S5E21 / 30 Apr 2001
Say Uncle
S5E22 / 07 May 2001
Separation
S5E23 / 14 May 2001
Frank Paints the House
S5E24 / 21 May 2001
Ally's Birth
S5E25 / 21 May 2001
Season 6
The Angry Family
S6E1 / 24 Sep 2001
No Roll!
S6E2 / 01 Oct 2001
Odd Man Out
S6E3 / 08 Oct 2001
Ray's Ring
S6E4 / 15 Oct 2001
Marie's Sculpture
S6E5 / 22 Oct 2001
Frank Goes Downstairs
S6E6 / 29 Oct 2001
Jealous Robert
S6E7 / 05 Nov 2001
It's Supposed to Be Fun
S6E8 / 12 Nov 2001
Older Women
S6E9 / 19 Nov 2001
Raybert
S6E10 / 26 Nov 2001
The Kicker
S6E11 / 10 Dec 2001
Season's Greetings
S6E12 / 17 Dec 2001
Tissues
S6E13 / 07 Jan 2002
Snow Day
S6E14 / 14 Jan 2002
Cookies
S6E15 / 28 Jan 2002
Lucky Suit
S6E16 / 04 Feb 2002
The Skit
S6E17 / 25 Feb 2002
The Breakup Tape
S6E18 / 04 Mar 2002
Talk to Your Daughter
S6E19 / 18 Mar 2002
A Vote for Debra
S6E20 / 25 Mar 2002
Call Me Mom
S6E21 / 29 Apr 2002
Mother's Day (1)
S6E22 / 06 May 2002
The Bigger Person (2)
S6E23 / 13 May 2002
The First Time (3)
S6E24 / 20 May 2002
Season 7
The Cult
S7E1 / 23 Sep 2002
Counseling
S7E2 / 23 Sep 2002
Homework
S7E3 / 30 Sep 2002
Pet the Bunny
S7E4 / 07 Oct 2002
Who Am I?
S7E5 / 14 Oct 2002
Robert Needs Money
S7E6 / 21 Oct 2002
The Sigh
S7E7 / 04 Nov 2002
The Annoying Kid
S7E8 / 11 Nov 2002
She's the One
S7E9 / 18 Nov 2002
Marie's Vision
S7E10 / 25 Nov 2002
The Thought That Counts
S7E11 / 09 Dec 2002
Grandpa Steals
S7E12 / 06 Jan 2003
Somebody Hates Raymond
S7E13 / 27 Jan 2003
Just a Formality
S7E14 / 03 Feb 2003
The Disciplinarian
S7E15 / 10 Feb 2003
Sweet Charity
S7E16 / 17 Feb 2003
Meeting the Parents
S7E17 / 24 Feb 2003
The Plan
S7E18 / 10 Mar 2003
Sleepover at Peggy's
S7E19 / 31 Mar 2003
Who's Next
S7E20 / 14 Apr 2003
The Shower
S7E21 / 28 Apr 2003
Baggage
S7E22 / 05 May 2003
The Bachelor Party
S7E23 / 12 May 2003
Robert's Wedding (1)
S7E24 / 19 May 2003
Robert's Wedding (2)
S7E25 / 19 May 2003
Season 8
Fun with Debra
S8E1 / 22 Sep 2003
Thank You Notes
S8E2 / 29 Sep 2003
Home from School
S8E3 / 06 Oct 2003
Misery Loves Company
S8E4 / 13 Oct 2003
The Contractor
S8E5 / 20 Oct 2003
Peter on the Couch
S8E6 / 03 Nov 2003
Liars
S8E7 / 10 Nov 2003
The Surprise Party
S8E8 / 17 Nov 2003
The Bird
S8E9 / 24 Nov 2003
Jazz Records
S8E10 / 15 Dec 2003
Debra at the Lodge
S8E11 / 05 Jan 2004
Slave
S8E12 / 12 Jan 2004
Whose Side Are You On?
S8E13 / 02 Feb 2004
Lateness
S8E14 / 09 Feb 2004
Party Dress
S8E15 / 16 Feb 2004
Security
S8E16 / 23 Feb 2004
The Ingrate
S8E17 / 01 Mar 2004
Crazy Chin
S8E18 / 22 Mar 2004
The Nice Talk
S8E19 / 19 Apr 2004
Blabbermouths
S8E20 / 03 May 2004
The Model
S8E21 / 10 May 2004
The Mentor
S8E22 / 17 May 2004
Golf for It
S8E23 / 24 May 2004
Season 9
The Home
S9E1 / 20 Sep 2004
Not So Fast
S9E2 / 27 Sep 2004
Angry Sex
S9E3 / 04 Oct 2004
P.T. & A
S9E4 / 11 Oct 2004
Ally's F
S9E5 / 18 Oct 2004
Boys' Therapy
S9E6 / 15 Nov 2004
Debra's Parents
S9E7 / 22 Nov 2004
A Job for Robert
S9E8 / 29 Nov 2004
A Date for Peter
S9E9 / 03 Jan 2005
Favors
S9E10 / 17 Jan 2005
The Faux Pas
S9E11 / 07 Feb 2005
Tasteless Frank
S9E12 / 14 Feb 2005
Sister-in-Law
S9E13 / 18 Apr 2005
The Power of No
S9E14 / 02 May 2005
Pat's Secret
S9E15 / 09 May 2005
The Finale
S9E16 / 16 May 2005
Ray Romano
Ray Barone
Patricia Heaton
Debra Barone
Brad Garrett
Robert Barone
Madylin Sweeten
Ally Barone
Sawyer Sweeten
Geoffrey Barone
Sullivan Sweeten
Michael Barone
Doris Roberts
Marie Barone
